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under pressure

I was forced and I am now addicted to cannabis

By:
Anon
Posted: 
26th Oct 2011

It was 13 when i first started smoking it. It happend one night when i was out with some friends and they all smoked cannabis and i didn't. they asked me if i wanted a bucket and i said no. they said if we pull it you have to sook it, thats the way it goes and they said if i didnt sook it i would of got beaten up.

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One drug leads to another

By:
Anon
Posted: 
19th Oct 2011

When I was thirteen I was never really fussed about drinking or drugs. I thought that people who were drinking and doing drugs in the local park were stupid. When I was fifteen my boyfriend pressured me into drinking. I felt awful and had to be sent home by the police. When that relationship ended I turned to drink to get over it. I felt that I deserved to feel bad all of the time. Eventually, I started enjoying to drink but it made me act in ways that I usually would not. But the humor of this wore off quickly and I needed a new fix. This lead me into taking cannabis.

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FRANK Advice
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14th Oct 2011

I feel pressured into using cocaine, what can I do? How can I go out and socialise with friends and not use cocaine?

It’s easy to think you’re the only one who has not experimented with drugs, but the reality is that most young people don’t take drugs.

Prepare yourself now by thinking through how you want to respond and behave when someone offers you cocaine.  It may help to share your thoughts and feelings with someone you trust.

Say ‘No’ firmly but clearly, and without making a big deal about it. If they try to persuade you, don’t feel like you have to change your mind.

If you’re finding it hard to be yourself within your group, take a step back, and think about whether it’s time to find a new crowd and friends to hang out with.

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Pressured into smoking cannabis.

By:
Anon
Posted: 
12th Oct 2011

I started smoking cannabis at 12 due to peer pressure. The first time I only had a small amount of a joint and didn’t have much effect the second time it did. The day started and we went to meet some friends we were in a group of about 3 or 4 and we were having a few joints. It came to my turn and everyone was cheering me on saying “go on go on more more” I didn’t want to seem scared so I smoked and smoked.

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FRANK Advice
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06th Oct 2011

What can I do if I feel under pressure to do drugs?

You’re not alone! It’s easy to think you’re the only one who has not experimented with drugs. The reality is that most people your age  don’t take drugs and you’re in the majority.

Talk to someone: FRANK, a parent or sibling, or a close friend who isn’t offering you drugs.  If someone is offering you drugs, try to understand their reasons for doing so. That should help you find the right way to tell them you don’t want to do drugs. 

Drugs can have a bad effect on your mental and physical health and your education. Think carefully about your own reasons for not wanting to do them.  Find an explanation that you’re comfortable with and are happy to share with others.  Stick to your guns. If you keep saying ’No’ – people will stop asking.  Try to avoid people and places where you are likely to be offered drugs.

Read more about dealing with pressure.

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